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I think when we talk about finding ourselves, it can mean a lot of things. But most of the time, in a practical sense, it means to learn how you want to move through life. Where I think we get stuck, though, is the idea that we need to find it. What matters to you in life does not necessarily reside in some deep corner of your soul that needs to be discovered. What matters is something you have to decide.

If you have the luxury of being able to go on a journey of self-discovery in order to find yourself, I think you can count yourself amongst some of the more privileged of the world. For a lot of people, life doesn't really give them any choices of who to be. Finding yourself is irrelevant. When you're too busy staying alive to sit and ponder it.